The modern home celebration of Hanukkah centers around the lighting of the hanukkiyah, a special menorah for Hanukkah; eating unique foods such as latkes and jelly doughnuts (sufganiyot), playing dreidel and singing special songs.
Together with your children, watch the Shalom Sesame videos below. Then try some of the discussion ideas and activities below recommended by Reform Jewish educators to further extend the lessons learned in the video. If you wish, share your experiences and ideas in the comments sections below!
Lighting the hanukkiyah
The entire family can share one hanukkiyah, or each person can light his or her own. It is a good idea to place a tray or foil beneath the hanukkiyah for the dripping wax! Candles are added to the hanukkiyah from right to left but are kindled from left to right. The newest candle is lit first. (On the Shabbat of Hanukkah, kindle the Hanukkah lights first and then the Shabbat candles.)
- Practice lighting the candles and saying the blessings with the Virtual Hanukkiyah, a fun online tool.
Putting a new "spin" on an old game
The very best part of celebrating Hanukkah with your family is the traditions that have been carried on for generations. Playing with a dreidel, a special four-sided spinning top with a Hebrew letter printed on each side, is another great Hanukkah pastime. You can even mix it up by pitting the kids in the family against the grown-ups, or play the game to some fun Hanukkah-themed music. Baby Bear can give you the lowdown on "dreidel spinability."
Playing dreidel is a fun family activity. Start by dropping a bunch of pennies in some vinegar to give them some shine. If your kids are older and more proficient with math, you can add a few nickels and dimes to the mix and have them practice those math skills. If it’s your first time spinning a dreidel, learn to play the game together with your child.
Gift exchange that goes beyond your family
Creating meaning for your kids during the holiday season can help them move beyond the commercialism that characterizes the focus on gift giving. Try this: "get one, give one." If your tradition is typically to give gifts all eight nights of Hanukkah, this year give gifts to your children on four of the nights of Hanukkah, and on the other four give to someone in need a gift. Here's one example—if a book is given to a child one night, a book is donated the next.
Stories can be gifts, too
Do you have special holiday memories? Share them with your kids! If celebrating Hanukkah is new to your family, write down some memorable moments so that you can remind your child next year. You'll create your own chain of family memories. Since Hanukkah falls during the winter holiday season, your kids can share their Hanukkah traditions with friends or family who may celebrate other holidays.
Dreidel around the world
The letters on the dreidel—Nun, Gimmel, Hay, Shin—stand for Nes Gadol Haya Sham, which means "A great miracle happened there" ("there" meaning Israel). Ask your children if they can think of any miracles that happen in their more immediate community—what does a "miracle" mean to them?
The Chanukah Activity Book
Children will enjoy activities such as Maccabee word games, coloring their own hanukkiyah, and discovering the symbols, rituals, and history of this holiday.
Entrée to Judaism for Families: Jewish Cooking and Kitchen Conversations with Children by Tina Wasserman
Jewish foods are intricately connected to Jewish history and culture, and this book brings it all together for families in a unique way. Recipes for Hanukkah and other Jewish holidays include “kitchen conversations”, ideas for discussion and activity suggestions to help families connect to Jewish history and each other.
The Missing Menorah
Baby Bear and Telly Play Dreidel
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